Why hospitality employees leave and how to understand why
Hotel, restaurant and banquet staff leave for reasons that vary by department and season. How to ask what sits behind the first answer and act on it.
8 min readRead articleA sit-down restaurant serves guests at tables, with a kitchen behind and a floor in front. This page looks at waiters, cooks, long split shifts, tips and the hygiene habits that guests judge on one meal.

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Share your requirementsA sit-down restaurant runs on two teams that rarely see each other's problems. The front has hosts, captains, waiters and cashiers, and the back has a head chef, cooks, tandoor or grill hands, a commis, dishwashers and stewards. Lunch and dinner peaks, weekends and festival evenings decide the day, and many staff work split shifts with a gap in the afternoon. Guests judge the meal by the wait, the plate and the manner of the waiter, so a missing hand during a rush is felt at once. Hygiene, temperature, allergen care and clean uniforms are daily matters, and staff meals, tips or service charge, and a dormitory bed are part of the deal. Related reading: hospitality HR. Restaurants lose cooks and waiters to the next opening, so a clear rota, fair sharing of tips and a path from commis to chef often decide who stays.
These are the places the people side of this kind of business tends to give way. The rest of this page works through them.
HR here has to work for each of these groups, not only the office. The set-up below is written with all of them in mind.
GullyHR runs talent acquisition for permanent roles in sit-down restaurants. For each role we agree the job description with you, find and screen candidates against it, and support the offer through to joining. Tell us the role and the number of people, and we start there.
We recruit permanent employees. We do not supply contract or temporary staff.
Every business interviews, but few have a written process that works the same way for every role and every interviewer. GullyHR designs yours, from the role brief to the offer, trains your managers to run it, and can run it for you on the roles you hand us.
We agree what the role must deliver, the must-have and nice-to-have skills, and how each will be scored.
Screening call, assessment, interview rounds and decision points, sized to the role and the number of people you hire.
Structured questions for each role family and a rating guide, so two interviewers judge the same answer the same way.
A short briefing for your managers on what to ask, what to avoid and how to give a clear yes or no.
Who approves, how the offer is made, and how candidates are kept informed from first call to joining.
Staff work lunch, wait through the afternoon and return for dinner, and the long day leaves little rest.
A full house with too few waiters means slow tables, short tempers and guests who do not return.
How a pooled amount is divided between floor, kitchen and support staff is guessed, and a perceived unfairness spreads.
A late plate is the waiter's fault in the kitchen and the cook's fault on the floor, with the manager in the middle.
Recipes, vendors and the team's loyalty rest with one person, and his departure takes a whole station.
Hand washing, temperature checks, labelling and allergen care are first to be skipped when tables are full.
Waiters and helpers move to the next opening for a small raise, and the guests meet new faces every month.
Staff eat standing, late or not at all, and breaks are taken when the manager allows.
Start with the topics that matter most here: HR Strategy and Workforce Planning; Compensation, Payroll and Benefits; Retention and Attrition Management. Then work through the rest. Each topic is written for hospitality, not in general.
How many people, in which roles, by when — and what they will cost.
Salary structure, payroll inputs and a month that closes on time.
Who leaves, when, why — and which of them mattered.
Structure, reporting lines and who is allowed to decide what.
Requisition to joining, the same way every time.
A first day that is the same for the fifth joiner as the first.
Records, attendance, leave and the day-to-day HR that must simply work.
Goals, reviews and ratings that hold up in a conversation.
Training planned from need rather than from the calendar.
Named backups for the roles that cannot be vacant.
Communication, recognition and the conditions people actually work in.
Two routes — one for complaints, one for conduct — kept separate.
Policies a manager can apply, and obligations with owners and dates.
Induction, records, incident reporting and follow-through.
Resignation to relieving letter, in a defined order.
Records that survive people, and approvals that do not queue.
A short monthly pack management actually reads.
An HR function that runs the same way every month.
The pieces a sit-down restaurants business puts in place, in an order that makes each easier. Open any card for the detail.
Shift pairs, offs and breaks set a week ahead, with swaps through the captain.
Shift pairs, offs and breaks set a week ahead, with swaps through the captain. The shift and leave rules hold the detail.
Who receives what share, how it is recorded and when it is paid, explained to all staff.
Who receives what share, how it is recorded and when it is paid, explained to all staff. Confirm the treatment with a qualified professional. The pay process records it.
A short pre-service briefing on specials, stock-outs, allergens and tables, so both teams start from one plan.
A short pre-service briefing on specials, stock-outs, allergens and tables, so both teams start from one plan.
Recipes, portions, prep lists and vendor contacts written down, with a sous chef trained on each station.
Recipes, portions, prep lists and vendor contacts written down, with a sous chef trained on each station.
Daily checks, labelling, temperature records and clear allergen steps.
Daily checks, labelling, temperature records and clear allergen steps. The health and safety routine holds them.
Named steps and skills from runner to waiter to captain, and from commis to cook to chef de partie.
Named steps and skills from runner to waiter to captain, and from commis to cook to chef de partie. The learning plan carries it.
Before changing anything, find out what is true today. These checks take an afternoon and tell you which of the topics above to start with.
Share your requirementsConfirm with a qualified professional. What applies to you depends on your business, your state and your arrangements, and it changes. This page describes practice. It does not state a legal position.
The services below fit this kind of business best. Each starts by recording where you stand, and every later report compares against that. We do not promise outcomes.
Fair split shifts, offs and swaps for floor and kitchen teams.
A clear record of how tips, service charge and allowances are shared.
Station training and a ladder from runner and commis upwards.
Hygiene, allergen and kitchen safety routines that hold in a rush.
Start with a free conversation, or see the paid HR Diagnostic.
Understand the business, its workforce, current processes and HR challenges.
Find the missing, weak, inconsistent or person-dependent processes.
Create the structure, processes, policies, SOPs, dashboards and systems needed.
Help HR and department managers actually adopt the new system.
Digitise repetitive and approval-based workflows where it is worth doing.
Track hiring, attendance, employee cost, performance, training and attrition.
Strengthen the people-management system continuously, not once.
From the GullyHR blog: one on HR in hospitality, and one on each of the topics this page points to.

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Draw the busy hours from past covers, schedule staff to those hours and share split shifts fairly with set offs. Check hours and rest rules with a qualified professional.
Decide the shares in writing, tell everyone, record every payout and review each quarter. Surprises cause the worst quarrels.
Hold a short briefing before each service, share the same ticket times and review late plates together. Fixing the system helps more than naming a culprit.
Write down recipes, portions and prep, train a sous chef on each station and reward the chef for teaching. The kitchen then survives a resignation.
Offer a fair rota, a clear step to captain, regular meals and a hearing when something is wrong. Ask leavers why, each time.
We would look at how split shifts are shared, how tips are divided and how the kitchen is documented. A fair rota with a tips and service charge note, or a station training ladder, is a likely opener. We set out scope, timing and fee in writing afterwards, so you decide what goes ahead.
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