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Share your requirementsA meditation centre offers daily sittings, courses, weekend workshops and sometimes residential retreats. The paid team is small: a centre head, a few teachers or guides, an administrator, a kitchen and housekeeping crew, and a caretaker. Around them sits a larger group of volunteers who serve meals, set up halls and guide newcomers. Retreats bring an intense few days of early rising, silence and full houses, followed by empty weeks. Teachers may be paid by donation, a small stipend or nothing, which makes ordinary HR language feel out of place. Yet unpaid goodwill is easily strained when roles are unclear. Related reading: hospitality HR. The centre depends on a calm tone, so fairness, clarity and gentle handling of disagreement matter more than elaborate rules.
These are the places the people side of this kind of business tends to give way. The rest of this page works through them.
HR here has to work for each of these groups, not only the office. The set-up below is written with all of them in mind.
GullyHR runs talent acquisition for permanent roles in meditation centres. For each role we agree the job description with you, find and screen candidates against it, and support the offer through to joining. Tell us the role and the number of people, and we start there.
We recruit permanent employees. We do not supply contract or temporary staff.
Every business interviews, but few have a written process that works the same way for every role and every interviewer. GullyHR designs yours, from the role brief to the offer, trains your managers to run it, and can run it for you on the roles you hand us.
We agree what the role must deliver, the must-have and nice-to-have skills, and how each will be scored.
Screening call, assessment, interview rounds and decision points, sized to the role and the number of people you hire.
Structured questions for each role family and a rating guide, so two interviewers judge the same answer the same way.
A short briefing for your managers on what to ask, what to avoid and how to give a clear yes or no.
Who approves, how the offer is made, and how candidates are kept informed from first call to joining.
A long-serving volunteer acts like a manager and a paid cook feels unheard.
Stipend, travel, accommodation and rights to teach elsewhere are settled by understanding, not writing.
Early starts, silence rules and full houses leave the kitchen and housekeeping crew exhausted.
Donations and course fees pass through several hands with few records.
People hesitate to raise pay, hours or a grievance because it feels unkind to the cause.
A visitor who wants personal attention from the teacher disturbs the plan for others.
Those who live on site are called at all hours, and rest is nobody's rule.
Quiet tension between teachers or volunteers sits unspoken until someone leaves.
Start with the topics that matter most here: Employee Relations; Employee Engagement and Experience; HR Operations and Governance. Then work through the rest. Each topic is written for hospitality, not in general.
Two routes — one for complaints, one for conduct — kept separate.
Communication, recognition and the conditions people actually work in.
An HR function that runs the same way every month.
How many people, in which roles, by when — and what they will cost.
Structure, reporting lines and who is allowed to decide what.
Requisition to joining, the same way every time.
A first day that is the same for the fifth joiner as the first.
Records, attendance, leave and the day-to-day HR that must simply work.
Salary structure, payroll inputs and a month that closes on time.
Goals, reviews and ratings that hold up in a conversation.
Training planned from need rather than from the calendar.
Named backups for the roles that cannot be vacant.
Policies a manager can apply, and obligations with owners and dates.
Induction, records, incident reporting and follow-through.
Who leaves, when, why — and which of them mattered.
Resignation to relieving letter, in a defined order.
Records that survive people, and approvals that do not queue.
A short monthly pack management actually reads.
The pieces a meditation centres business puts in place, in an order that makes each easier. Open any card for the detail.
A one-page chart showing who is employed, who volunteers and who decides what.
A one-page chart showing who is employed, who volunteers and who decides what. Hold it with the HR documents.
Stipend or donation arrangement, travel, stay, teaching elsewhere and review, in a simple letter.
Stipend or donation arrangement, travel, stay, teaching elsewhere and review, in a simple letter.
Extra hands, rest days afterwards and a fair rota, using the shift and leave rules.
Extra hands, rest days afterwards and a fair rota, using the shift and leave rules.
Who receives, who counts, who deposits and who checks.
Who receives, who counts, who deposits and who checks. Confirm the required form with a qualified professional.
A named trusted person and a written way to speak up, within the grievance process.
A named trusted person and a written way to speak up, within the grievance process.
Hours, days off and a quiet place away from guests, kept in your safety and wellbeing practice.
Hours, days off and a quiet place away from guests, kept in your safety and wellbeing practice.
Before changing anything, find out what is true today. These checks take an afternoon and tell you which of the topics above to start with.
Share your requirementsConfirm with a qualified professional. What applies to you depends on your business, your state and your arrangements, and it changes. This page describes practice. It does not state a legal position.
The services below fit this kind of business best. Each starts by recording where you stand, and every later report compares against that. We do not promise outcomes.
Clear roles and terms for paid staff, teachers and volunteers.
Retreat rosters and rest days that protect the kitchen and housekeeping crew.
A gentle but real route to raise concerns without disturbing the atmosphere.
Rest and welfare rules for residential helpers and long retreat days.
Start with a free conversation, or see the paid HR Diagnostic.
Understand the business, its workforce, current processes and HR challenges.
Find the missing, weak, inconsistent or person-dependent processes.
Create the structure, processes, policies, SOPs, dashboards and systems needed.
Help HR and department managers actually adopt the new system.
Digitise repetitive and approval-based workflows where it is worth doing.
Track hiring, attendance, employee cost, performance, training and attrition.
Strengthen the people-management system continuously, not once.
From the GullyHR blog: one on HR in hospitality, and one on each of the topics this page points to.

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Write down the arrangement, travel and stay, review it yearly and make sure the centre's practice is consistent. Check the position with a qualified professional.
Give each a clear role, a point of contact, a time commitment and a way to step back without guilt. Thank them regularly and avoid giving them authority over paid staff.
Plan extra hands, fair rotas, rest days afterwards and simple meal plans. Ask the team what was hard after each retreat.
Use a receipt, a count by two people, a bank deposit and a monthly check. Confirm what records the centre must keep with a qualified professional.
Name a trusted person, make clear that concerns are welcome and respond in a set time. Silence is not peace if people leave unhappy.
Set working hours, days off, a quiet space and an on-call rule that is written down. Review how it works in practice.
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