Why hospitality employees leave and how to understand why
Hotel, restaurant and banquet staff leave for reasons that vary by department and season. How to ask what sits behind the first answer and act on it.
8 min readRead articleA member club serves people who own a stake in it and expect to be known by name. Here is how to organise a long-serving team, a committee that changes and members who see everything.

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Share your requirementsA country club, gymkhana or member club serves families who pay to belong, not guests who pay once. The team looks after dining rooms, bars, banquets, sports facilities, a pool, guest rooms in some cases, gardens and the office that manages membership, accounts and events. Many clubs have employees who have served for decades and know members' habits, while others use outsourced staff for kitchens, cleaning or security. A general manager or secretary runs daily affairs, but is accountable to an elected committee whose members change every year or two and who may not agree on priorities. Members are close observers: they notice slow service, a changed menu or a missing familiar face, and they may complain directly to a committee member. Weekends, festivals and annual events bring heavy loads, and weekday afternoons can be very quiet.
Who does the work
A committee changes direction every term
New office-bearers bring new ideas on staffing and pay, and decisions made by one committee are reversed by the next without a written record.
Long-serving staff and thin records
People with twenty years of service have informal arrangements, unclear job roles and pay that does not match their current duties.
Members complain to the person they know
A member raises a concern with a committee member, who then instructs a staff member directly, going around the manager.
Service depends on familiarity
Staff know members' preferences by heart, but little is written down, so a retirement or a resignation takes that knowledge with it.
Younger hires do not stay
Fresh stewards and trainees see little career movement and move to hotels or restaurants, leaving an ageing team.
Agree a staffing policy the committee adopts
A written policy on hiring, pay revisions, promotions and discipline, approved once and carried from one committee to the next. The HR policies and governance work covers it.
Update every role in writing
A current description, grade and pay for each long-serving employee, discussed with them, so that informal arrangements are replaced by clear ones. The role design and job descriptions work provides the format.
Set one route for member feedback
A simple way for members to give feedback through the manager or an office, with a rule that committee members do not instruct staff directly.
Capture member knowledge before it leaves
A short guide for each section about regular members' preferences, event traditions and how things are done, built with the staff who know them.
Offer younger staff a visible path
Steps from trainee to steward to supervisor with training and a review date, so people can see where they are going. The learning and development process helps.
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Staffing rules approved by the committee once and applied consistently as office-bearers change.
Current role descriptions and grades for long-serving staff, replacing informal understandings.
A plan for the manager, chef and key section heads, so a retirement does not leave the club exposed.
A way to keep long-serving staff and younger hires working as one team.
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Agree a grade structure and compare each person's current duties with it. Discuss changes with the person and the manager before the committee approves anything.
From their manager. Members and committee members raise concerns through the manager or office, who then instruct the team. Write this down and share it with the committee at the start of each term.
Start with a clear conversation about what is expected, offer training or a changed role and keep a written record. Take advice from a qualified professional before any formal step.
Treat them as part of the club's standard: share the service rules, check how the contractor manages attendance and training, and agree one contact on each side.
Show a path, train them properly and recognise good work in front of the team. Many leave because no one explained what might come next.
We would meet the manager and, if useful, the committee. The questions would be whether each long-serving employee's joining date, duties and pay match on paper, who gives instructions to staff, and how member complaints reach the right person. A first piece of work could be a staffing policy the committee can adopt and carry across terms. Scope is agreed in writing afterwards.
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