Promoted on Friday, managing on Monday: the first 90 days
Your best engineer now runs the team and nobody told them how. What the first ninety days should actually contain, and what the business owes them.
Read the articleGanesh HS ·
A salesperson closed a deal at nineteen per cent below list. Reviewing it afterwards, his manager asked at what point the buyer had pushed for the discount. He thought about it and said the buyer had not, exactly — there had been a pause after the price was mentioned, and he had offered a reduction to keep the conversation moving.
That is the most common way margin is lost in Indian B2B sales, and it does not look like a negotiation failure because no negotiation took place. The concession was made pre-emptively, against an objection that was imagined rather than raised.
The pause is not a rejection. A buyer who has just heard a number is usually doing arithmetic, or thinking about who else needs to approve it, or simply not speaking. The seller, who has been anxious about the number all week, reads it as the objection they were expecting and fills it.
This is trainable in about ten minutes and it takes practice to hold. State the price, then stop talking. The discomfort is real and entirely one-sided — the buyer is not experiencing the silence as awkward, because they are thinking. It is also the single highest-return ten minutes in most sales and negotiation skills sessions, which says something uncomfortable about how much of the margin problem is psychological rather than commercial.
Sellers who learn to wait report the same surprise: a meaningful proportion of the time, the next thing the buyer says is a question about implementation rather than a challenge on price. The objection they had rehearsed against never arrives.
When a discount is genuinely requested, the rule that preserves both margin and credibility is that nothing is given away — it is exchanged.
GIVEN
"We can do 12% off."
Result: the price was never real. The buyer now
expects a further move, because one was available
for free. Next year's renewal starts here.
TRADED
"I can get to 12% if we move to annual payment
in advance instead of quarterly."
Result: the price is real and has conditions. The
buyer gets a decision to make rather than a
concession to bank.
WHAT TO TRADE FOR
payment terms / contract length / volume commitment
scope reduction / reference or case study /
faster decision date / fewer customisationsThe trade does not have to be equal in value. It has to exist. A concession with a condition attached communicates that the price was calculated; a concession without one communicates that it was aspirational, and everything afterwards is negotiated from that understanding.
This also matters well beyond the deal in question. A customer who learns that pressure produces movement applies pressure at every renewal, and the cumulative cost across an account's life considerably exceeds the original discount.
Quarter-end is the most expensive week in most sales organisations, and the reason is structural rather than behavioural.
A seller who must close by the thirtieth has a constraint the buyer does not share, and experienced buyers know the calendar. What follows is predictable: the decision slows, a final condition appears late, and the seller concedes because the alternative is missing the number. The negotiation was lost when the deadline became visible.
The walk-away point is the one that most changes behaviour, and it is a management decision as much as an individual one. A seller who believes any deal is better than no deal will always concede, and they are frequently right about their own incentives even when they are wrong about the business's.
This is the uncomfortable part, and it is why negotiation training so often fails to change the numbers.
A salesperson paid on revenue will discount, because a smaller deal closed is worth more to them than a larger deal lost, and discounting costs them very little while costing the business a great deal. This is not a discipline problem. It is the incentive working exactly as designed, and no amount of training will overcome it.
Paying some proportion of commission on margin, or setting a discount threshold above which approval is required, changes the behaviour in a quarter. Both are considerably more effective than a training day, and both are decisions that sit outside the sales team — which is why a business seeing systemic discounting should look at compensation and rewards strategy before booking a course.
Training is then worth doing, into a system where holding price is actually in the seller's interest. In the reverse order, people learn techniques they have no incentive to use.
One structural detail worth fixing before any training. Where a seller says no and the buyer then obtains a better price by calling someone more senior, the seller's position is destroyed for every subsequent negotiation with that account — and the buyer has learnt a route that they will use again.
This happens constantly and is rarely recognised as a problem, because the senior person is usually solving what looks like a stuck deal. The fix is not to remove the escalation but to route the answer back through the seller: the concession, if granted, is communicated by the person who was negotiating. It costs nothing and it keeps the seller's word worth something.
The same applies internally to anyone whose authority can be bypassed by a phone call. It is a delegation and decision-rights question rather than a sales one, which is the sort of thing a delegation of authority structure is supposed to settle and frequently has not.
What you will trade, in what order, and where you stop. Negotiations are largely decided before the conversation, and sellers who prepare only their pitch are improvising the part that determines the outcome.
Price is frequently a proxy. A buyer pushing hard on price may in fact need to demonstrate a saving internally, or to fit a budget line, or to match a competing quote in a specific dimension. Each has a solution that is not a discount.
Role-play with someone willing to be genuinely difficult, on real deals rather than invented ones. Holding a price is a behaviour under stress, and reading about it does not transfer.
Frequently harder than the external one. Getting approval for a non-standard term, or pushing back on a colleague who has promised something, requires the same skills and is rarely taught.
The fourth item is worth emphasising because it generalises well beyond sales. Procurement, project leads and anyone who has to agree terms internally uses the same capability, and businesses frequently train only the sales team when sales and negotiation skills would return as much applied to the people signing supplier contracts.
The measure of whether any of it worked is not the win rate, which moves for many reasons. It is average discount by seller over two quarters, alongside what was obtained in exchange. A team whose discount level is unchanged but which now has better payment terms on half its deals has improved, and only the second half of that measurement will show it.
A threshold above which approval is needed works better than a blanket policy. It preserves flexibility for genuine cases while making routine discounting visible, which is usually where most of the margin goes.
Then the conversation is about what differs rather than about price, and that requires knowing specifically what you do that they do not. Matching on price where you cannot articulate a difference is a decision to compete on the one dimension you have chosen not to build for.
Practice, with someone timing it. Most people fill a pause within three seconds and are startled to learn how short that is. It is a physical habit rather than a knowledge gap, so it responds to repetition rather than explanation.
Considerably. Procurement, vendor management, project scoping and internal resource discussions all use the same skills, and those populations are trained far less often despite negotiating similar sums.
Track average discount by seller and what was traded for it, over two quarters. Win rate moves for too many unrelated reasons to be a useful measure of negotiation capability.
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